Hello all! I could use some advice on how to figure out who my father is, among a group of brothers.
I took a DNA test, which did not link to anyone who is related to the person I thought was my father. Instead, I got a cousin who's father has several brothers that went to school with my mom.
If there was one brother, I would have contacted him right away, but I don't want to stir up any family drama by contacting the wrong one. Ideally, I would like my bio dad to have the option to have contact with me or not, and also have the choice to tell his family or not. It doesn't seem like there is a way to find out without taking that risk.
Any ideas appreciated!